Closures

- is a psychological process. when you have a problem with someone or went through a bad experience like loosing a loved one, you need to express your feelings and go through them and then at a point come to terms with it so that you can close that chapter and move on. it is called closure and it is very important for emotional and psychological health. (...) i tend to drag my emotions rather than sort them out. when i love i love a lot! and when i hate i hate a lot. plus i am scorpio so i am fiercely loyal and it takes me a lot of time to get over relationships, i mean i still have issues with how my relationship ended with them and that weighs on me.
- in wich way? do you think you would like to continue these stories?
- not sure, i feel i have a lot to say, and there is a lot i need them to explain to me, but, yes, i also feel that they have a part of me that i want back. and i also feel that i miss those special things that they provided and want to have them. i want to feel what i used to feel with them. it is pretty complicated.
- When you say: "i also feel that they have a part of me that i want back" it means that you want to live everything again?
- not live it again, it is just that i am a very privage person, and it takes a lot for me to open up to people, so when i do and then they leave me, i feel like a part of me is with them
- it's beautiful
- and that hurts
- yes, I know
- i'm glad you think so
- i thought i was scaring you away from me!
- can be!;)
- but I know what you mean. I wish I don't. (...)
- oh, have as many closures as you want honey, just don't close on me.